So I just kinda realized that I’m the same age as this years freshman. But even if I hit it off with a guy who’s my age (aka, freshman) I can’t date him because I’m on freshman out reach and we can’t (understandably tbh) date freshman while on that group.
Well I’m not out to everyone in my life! So I have two real “big” coming outs. One was to my uncle (who is gay) and I just got his number and texted him and was like yo I’m gay. (didn’t really happen that way. He actually asked me if that’s what I was getting at and it was really hard to do it but then I told him and that was in 10th grade. I’m a Junior in college now and I’m so happy I did that!) The second one was to my brother recently. We were in a hotel room because they were fumigating the house and I was there and our parents went to go get dinner. I just sat there and literally threw my arms up and said “I’m gay.”. His reaction: “really? I kinda knew.”. So that was good. I’m not out to my parents yet and I’m not “out” in my campus ministry just because to me it’s not an issue. Like…I don’t really care if they know but I also don’t wanna make it a big deal because to me it isn’t. But that’s my opinion. However, most everyone there would be open and affirming to it would be fine either way! Thanks for asking anon!